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How to prepare for anal sex
Step 1: Talk to your partner
The first step to any type of great sex is communication, so be sure to talk to your partner about what you want to do before you do it. This includes talking about anal sex toys or anal play; if you want to start preparing for anal sex, you need to make sure your partner is on the same page as you.
Approach the topic first when you’re not in the bedroom so there’s no pressure on either of you, then be honest and tell them what you’re interested in about anal sex. Be sure to listen to what your partner has to say in response, too.
One way we suggest to get the conversation started is to look at anal toys for beginners together, rather than jumping right into anal licking (more on that later). For some people, over-the-top ass stuff is jarring and maybe even offensive, which is not a good feeling in any kind of sex act! So your first step in preparing for anal sex is to open the lines of communication.
Step 2: Cleanse
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Everyone knows what a butt routine is, and if you choose to explore anal sex, you both need to accept the possibility of encountering that routine. With that said, we know that many of you want to know how to cleanse before anal sex so that you can minimize the appearance of unwanted excrement.
Start by giving yourself a good cleaning with unscented soap in the backdoor area. You don’t need to do anything more than that!
However, if you want a deeper clean, consider investing in an anal douche, such as the Lovehoney Anal Douche. Using a douche to cleanse your rectum at least half an hour before you play can further reduce the chance of any accidents while helping you feel sexier and more confident. Relaxation is a key factor in anal sex, so do what makes you feel your best.
If you’re someone who likes to tame or trim your body hair before sex, remember to pay attention to the area around your anus. You may not realize how much hair it has!
Step 3: Use anal lubricant
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The best lubricant for anal sex is, of course, one designed for anal sex. And to be clear, you should always use a lubricant when you are having anal sex. The anus doesn’t provide natural lubrication like the vagina does, so all your sliding and gliding needs to come from an outside option, like lube.
It’s all well and good to use whatever lube you have lying around, but if you’re ready to have anal sex, why not choose the best product for what you’re planning to do?
Water-based, oil-based, and even silicone-based anal lubricants will go a long way to ensure that your anal adventure is enjoyable and satisfying. Pick a lubricant that specifically states that you are suitable for anal sex, such as Lovehoney Discover – anal sex lubricants are generally thicker and longer lasting than non-anal sex lubricants, which means you can play longer without having to reapply.
When you’re ready, be sure to check that the anal lubricant you choose is compatible with the toy or condom you intend to use. Water-based lubricants are usually compatible with a variety of anal play, while oil-based lubricants can erode condoms and potentially damage some toys, and silicon-based lubricants are not compatible with silicone or realistic-feeling toys.
Step 4: Warm up
Before you commit to anal sex, you’ll want to warm up with a little anal foreplay. Foreplay is a great way to get you and your partner relaxed, excited and ready for anal sex. Here are some tips to get you started.
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Anal licking or anal sex is the act of oral sex and is one of the most pleasurable forms of anal foreplay. Anal foreplay is the act of licking the anus with the tongue and it is one of the most pleasurable forms of anal foreplay. That said, anal foreplay doesn’t have to be tongue-only; try using a vibrator or stroker to stimulate your partner’s anus.
Don’t have the tunnel effect! When performing anal sex, be sure to give loving attention to the sensitive inner thighs, perineum and testicles. Gently squeezing the buttocks can also enhance your lover’s experience.
The tongue is one of the strongest muscles in your body, so be sure to use it to its full potential. Alternate between pinpoint dips and wide, flat strokes so your partner never knows what will happen next.
It’s also a good idea to add breathing to anal sex. Gently blowing hot and cold air into the anus during anal licking can increase sensitivity and greatly enhance sensation.
Finally, the real key to enjoying cunnilingus is comfort. Make sure you and your partner can both find an ideal position for oral sex – whether it’s 69-style, sitting facing away from you, or them lying on their front with a pillow under their hips while you kneel behind them and enjoy the view.
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Anal Fingering
Anal fingering is another delicious form of anal foreplay. As you might expect from the name, anal fingering involves using a number as the teasing element of foreplay.
Stroke around your partner’s anus, taking care not to scratch the sensitive skin with your fingernails. You may like to use a latex finger glove (basically a one-finger glove) to make sure your fingers stay clean as you explore.
As always, make sure to use plenty of lube, especially if you’re starting anal penetration with your fingers for the first time.
Small anal sex toys
If you’ve progressed from anal sex to fingering, the next step in your anal sex training is a small anal toy. Part of enjoying anal sex is getting used to the feel of it – some people enjoy the full feeling of having a finger, toy or other body part inside them almost immediately, but many people take time to get used to the sensation.
Why not take a look at our beginner anal toys and choose one together? Look for something with a tapered tip and a small initial circumference; you can always work your way up to something larger.
Anal beads
Anal beads are one of the best anal toys to start anal training with. Anal beads can provide progressive anal play on their own, without the need to switch to a new toy once you’re used to the smallest beads.
Anal beads like Lovehoney Classic Silicone Anal Beads usually start with a slim initial bead that pops easily inside. You can use as many or as few anal beads as you like; as you progress, the anal beads get progressively larger, providing more stretch and satisfaction.
The anal beads feel great on their own, but are even better when gently removed during orgasm; Annabelle and Jess go over all the details in the video below.
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Our final suggestion for your anal foreplay is to get a set of butt plugs, like the Jelly Rancher Pleasure Anal Training Butt Plug Kit. Butt plugs are an excellent form of anal foreplay and can even be worn during PIV sex for added fullness and satisfaction.
The beauty of an anal training kit like this one is that it provides you with multiple sizes of butt plugs, so you can progress at your own pace. Wearing a butt plug before having anal sex is a great way to prepare for penetration with a dildo or penis.
Step 5: Take it slow and easy
Most importantly, as you prepare for anal sex and try it for the first time, be sure to take your time and savor the experience. Communicate, enjoy the foreplay, and take your time.
Sammi and Jess have some advice on why this step is so important, as well as other tips on how to enjoy your first anal sex session.
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